This pandemic has prompted me to reflect a lot on the name of my business: Heyday Coaching. . . . Then we were hit by a global pandemic and the accompanying economic collapse. Like most everyone I knew, I felt (and sometimes still feel) mired in a state of limbo. What happens when a heyday is not possible? I realized that there are lots of time when achieving your “best life,” your ideal life, is impossible. For people navigating cancer treatment or a divorce, caring for an elderly loved one, struggling to survive a personal economic crisis, and lots of other challenges, I wonder if my language about helping someone achieve a personal heyday feels like one more impossible aspiration. Should I really be calling my business “Heyday”?
The Things That Don't Change
This week I’ve been trying to keep my focus on the things that haven’t changed—on the points of continuity in my life. Life will go on. This too shall pass. In the words of the fourteenth century saint, Julian of Norwich, who witnessed an outbreak of the Black Death: “All shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of things shall be well.”
Learning to Sustain in the Age of Coronavirus
How is everyone doing? Thursday of week two seems like a good time to check in. And if you’re like me, it’s been a week of ups and downs. Little ups and pretty big downs. I’ve had spells when I was weepy, spells when I was restless and couldn’t focus on anything, and spells when existential anxieties threatened to take over my mind.